INSIDE ◾BLACK◾ IOWA
Subscribe
Cover photo

Pandemic woes: New school year excites, worries Black mother

A Des Moines mother says she has to worry about a lot more than backpacks and school buses. She's worried about COVID-19, face masks and racism.

Black Iowa News

Aug 25, 2021
22

Dewayne, Kendall and Sylvia Jefferson enjoy an August day at Evelyn K. Davis Park in Des Moines. Photo by Black Iowa News.

Sylvia Jefferson, 30, shares the same hopes most parents have at the start of a new school year — she wants her two young children to blossom and excel in their studies. But, she has fears that most Iowa parents don’t have.

“Being an African American mother with an African American son, it’s very scary,” she said. “I want them to have a positive school year. I want them to be able to, again, be kids and not have any issues.”

She still remembers what it felt like last year when she learned another child had called her son the N-word, and she doesn’t want her son to experience that again.

When Dewayne, 9 and daughter, Kendall, 7, return to Des Moines’ Monroe Elementary School today, Jefferson’s hopes and fears will, too. She wants her smart and energetic son who “wears his heart on his sleeve,” to thrive academically and push through the “stigma of being a Black child in the time that we’re in right now dealing with racism.” She wants Kendall, who is opinionated, outgoing and caring to blossom academically and “to know her beauty as a Black girl” and tap into her “Black girl magic,” she said.

Sylvia Jefferson watches her daughter, son and a friend play at Evelyn K. Davis Park in Des Moines. Photo by Black Iowa News.

Last June, Gov. Kim Reynolds signed a law limiting the teaching of critical race theory, without specifically calling it that, in K-12 schools, colleges and government diversity trainings. Jefferson said racism is a problem in Iowa and she worries a lot about how an anti-Black sentiment in the state will affect how her son is perceived as he grows up.

"I don't want my child to be the next victim so where I'm getting that phone call and I'm being told that he was gunned down and all he was doing was walking while Black," she said.

The pandemic has taken a toll on Jefferson who said she has struggled financially. She is working to start her own businesses because she needs work hours that will fit with her family obligations and community work. She's worried about how she would afford the internet services her children need to complete their school work.

The Des Moines school district has about 32,000 students, of which 20% are Black. Some students will return in person to classrooms in the state’s largest school district, while others remain at home for online learning. It’s the new normal amid a surge of the delta variant, where all 99 of Iowa’s counties are experiencing high and substantial spread of the virus.

According to the New York Times database, Iowa’s COVID-19 cases, hospitalizations and deaths have ticked upward. Just 51% of the state’s population is fully vaccinated. According to a Kaiser Family Foundation analysis, white Iowans have been vaccinated at twice the rate of Blacks, 49% to 25%, respectively.

Even so, Jefferson knows her children really want to attend in-person classes, and she believes they'll be safe there.

Dewayne and Kendall as they prepare to catch the bus on the first day of school. Photo courtesy of Sylvia Jefferson.

Dewayne, who donned a white T-shirt and high-top Air Force Ones for his back-to-school attire, likes math and basketball. He’s happy to go to school in person.

“I get to see my friends again,” he said.

His sister agreed.

“I get to see my teachers and friends,” she said.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends everyone wear a face mask indoors regardless of vaccination status. Iowa outlawed face mask mandates in schools, cities and counties. Jefferson wishes face masks could be mandated.

“I’m a little worried. I'm a little scared, but I just know that God’s got us,” she said.

Jefferson commended the way Des Moines Public Schools has handled the pandemic. She blames Reynolds for preventing schools from being able to mandate face masks.

“I think it's very selfish of Governor Reynolds,” she said. “I think it’s careless. I think it’s selfish that they’re not pushing a mask mandate.”

Jefferson said she has taught her children why they must wear their masks and she reminds them there are consequences if they don’t. Her daughter wasn’t a problem, but her son sometimes wears his mask beneath his nose, she said.

“He’s the one we struggle with. Going to the store, he struggles with keeping it on there,” she said. “I’ve explained to them time and time again: This is for your safety.”

She wishes that was the case inside her children’s school.

Subscribe to INSIDE ◾BLACK◾ IOWA
By subscribing, you agree to share your email address with Black Iowa News to receive their original content, including promotions. Unsubscribe at any time. Meta will also use your information subject to the Bulletin Terms and Policies
22

More from INSIDE ◾BLACK◾ IOWA
See all

George Floyd Square revisited: 'Beauty for ashes' on 2nd anniversary of Floyd killing

Today the world will remember George Floyd, a Black man brutally murdered by white Minneapolis police officers.🌻🧸✊🏿
May 25
4
6

‘Ransoming’ Black youth and adults from the clutches of cash bail: The Antwan Project

Prairielands Freedom Fund in Iowa, part of the National Bail Fund Network, works to free Black youth and adults who can’t afford bail while awaiting trial.
May 23
4
6

‘Unapologetically’ centering Black, Brown, biracial students: The Academy for Scholastic and Personal Success holds gala

The Academy for Scholastic and Personal Success in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, will hold its 15th annual gala on May 12 and celebrate 33 years of uplifting Black students.
May 5
4
Comments
Log in with Facebook to comment

22 Comments

  • Charlene Rhinehart
    Writes Chicago Southsider
    Thank you for sharing this perspective! It's unfortunate that some of these things have been normalized and pushed under the rug. I don't know why anyone would be bothered to hear the story of a Black mother. Being Black is a label that determines how …
    See more
    • 39w
  • Dawn Seekings
    Something. But also to I agree with Ms. Jefferson. My mom lives in Iowa and you don't see many African American people there. I would also like to express my thoughts and prayers for her and her kids. Racism is a huge problem everywhere. However I really do wish her and her kids all the best. Telling her kids that they should be proud of who they are and what they are is the biggest success she can give them right now. Teaching them to stand up for themselves is key! Yes her daughter is a beautiful little girl and with her mother telling her that and telling her that she a beautiful black girl is awesome. But I think it should go deeper than that. While showing her kids and teaching her kids that they are beautiful and black is great, but I think she should also talk to them about what to do/say to those who treat her kids the wrong way. Telling her kids that if he sees something say something. But more than that teaching her kids to stand up for one another is great. And to stand up for those around them. I know her kids will do great things. It's alright to nervous mama, but have faith.
    • 43w
  • Dana Waisner
    That’s crazy because my third grader was called a fu”$&@g whore by a 6th grader; they said it was because she’s white, my daughter heard horror, but she knew the f word and color term. It’s sad, all mamas fear for their children. Stop drinking your own…
    See more
    • 43w
  • Jenn N. Jen
    bet she’s not vaccinated. And she says she broke but buys her son Jordan’s. Priorities are messed up.
    • 43w
    • Author
      Black Iowa News
      First of all, Jenn Jen, you're judging her. You have no idea when her son got those shoes. His mom might have purchased the shoes before her financial troubles hit. His father, or grandparents or any number of people in his life could have purchased …
      See more
      • 43w
  • Shanon Sharpe
    It worries all mothers! I’m appalled in this post…I have kids in school too. My youngest is 9 and he can‘t be vaccinated. His school got shut down today until after Labor Day. Please quit using “Race” to get a story”!
    • 43w
    • Author
      Black Iowa News
      No one is using race to get a story. This Black woman's perspective is the story. Her feelings and hopes for her children. Her lived experience as a Black woman is the story.
      • 43w
  • Larry O'Dor
    As soon as blacks stop calling each other the n- word and start repecting each other and acting like the world owes them everything. Things will never change for them. Salary ended hundreds of years ago, no one on the face of the earth has been a slav…
    See more
    • 43w
  • Ray Daniel
    Absolutely terrible one sided journalism!t The black community is using the N Word all the time. Just a one sided story!
    • 43w
    • Author
      Black Iowa News
      The Black community is not a monolith. We all don't use the N-word all the time or at all.
      • 43w
  • Julian Almquist
    Why don’t they just say a woman is mad is it more or less important for saying she is black nobody ever hears what a Latino maybe has to say or the white guy over here or the Chinese guy over there or what the Filipino has to say why does the news have…
    See more
    • 43w
  • Tracy Oliver Dill
    Racism is everywhere and it affects everyone in one way or another. We have all experienced racism personally at one time in our lives but sadly it's always called something else to justify it. As far as mask mandates I disagree with her. If she and h…
    See more
    • 43w
    • Author
      Black Iowa News
      Black people in Iowa are targeted for traffic stops based on race. There are many stats that have exposed it. Learn more at https://justvoicesia.org/.
      JUSTVOICESIA.ORG
      Just Voices
      Just Voices
      • 43w
  • Tim Borton
    instead of scaring the people and make the suffer by wearing masks over the nonsense go to the source and do something about it
    • 43w
View 3 more comments
Share quoteSelect how you’d like to share below
Share on Facebook
Share to Twitter
Send in Whatsapp
Share on Linkedin
Privacy  ·  Terms  ·  Cookies
© Meta 2022
Discover fresh voices. Tune into new conversations. Browse all publications